Happy Mothers Day to those Mothers out there. Happy Mothers Day to my own Madre who is always just a phone call away <3
To IF's it's the dreaded holiday. The yearly reminder that another year passes and we are still not mothers. For me personally, I am no closer than I was 3.5+ years ago. In fact I feel like we've taken 10 steps back (ya know, the birth control and all). I yearn for the day I can be celebrated as a mother. But, sadly, it may not happen. I may just be mother to a fur-child (or two maybe).
We work for things in life. Work for a living, work for our bodies (whatever size/shape that may be), work for our relationships (friends, family, spouses),
How can it be that even Snookie, my fav Jersey Shore cast member will become a mother. It's a strange thing really. I see it daily, people that shouldn't be mothers, but somehow God has given them this gift.
I don't know the reasons why and I really try not to question it, but man, sometimes it's hard. Life is hard. We can't choose what happens to us however we can choose our attitude. I choose to be happy. No matter what. I choose to make the most of what I've been given. I'm so lucky in so many ways. I choose happiness.