A post happy Cinco de Mayo if you celebrated. Do anything fun? Margaritas (virgin or not) to be had? I'm not a fan of tequila, but I do love me some Bethenny Frankel skinny margarita (it's light and refreshing and has just a tad of tequila aftertaste).
I went to a former co-workers Cinco de Mayo party. It was a mix of ex co-workers and pretty low key for an afternoon party. We ate, had a drink, ate more and then ate dessert. Lots of good food made with loving Cinco hands :D
So I changed jobs about 9 months ago now and of course the question everyone was wondering (as I drank my Skinnygirl cocktail) was if I was preggers and if not, what were we doing. The funny thing is only one person asked (quietly like she assumed I was ashamed?).
I get it, it's uncomfortable, it's weird, they feel bad, but come on now, just ask and stop wondering.
Then I wonder, as the saying goes, is anyone even wondering, or is it all in my mind? Is it me thinking "it's all about me" and really no one cares? I guess I'll never know. and really, it doesn't matter.